“A large portion of men have become scared to interact with women, because everything can be interpreted as assault if it needs to be..” — “a large portion of men have become scared to interact with women, because everything can be interpreted as assault if it needs to be..” Yikes. A while back I wrote a post titled Trans Women — Welcome to the “Not a Real Woman” Club. …

About a week ago I had a brief conversation with my friend’s mother. It went the way every conversation she has with everyone goes. …

In the aftermath of covid, mental health problems are only going to get more common. Some people think mental health issues like anxiety and panic disorder are the same as being a bit nervous or feeling any kind of stress whatsoever. It can be hard to explain to people, doctors…

If someone doesn’t want to have sex with you, then you aren’t a real person. — When I was in school (all girls) there was a point we all got interested in makeup. I can’t remember the age we were exactly but basically dressing up, smelly things, colors and being creative, all of that became fun. We would paint each other’s nails and try to come…

An abusive tactic as effective as it is damaging. — Sandy’s boyfriend, Tom, is taking her out for dinner this evening, so things will be even more difficult than usual. As she goes through her wardrobe to find the right thing to wear she sees Tom through the bedroom window. He’s looking through the bin outside, searching for evidence of…

I’ll make this quick. Your actions at any given time will be risk averse or risk seeking. Cautious and restrained or bold and instinctive. If you think risk seeking behavior aligns with success, making great things happen and being all round alpha amazing then you’ve been tricked by a narrative…

There’s a thin line between working from wherever you want, whenever you want and having to work all the time wherever you are. — Dodging the rat race? Living differently? Or working yourself into the ground for someone else and calling it freedom? You only get one life, so it makes sense to do what you want with it. Working from home (or anywhere you want) is a great way to live. Whilst it…

Little ripples, dark depths. A lot of people think being brainwashed could never happen to them. That’s something you read about in history books or documentaries about cults and political prisoners, right? Or, that’s something that only happens to weak people. Not vibrant, confident people living their best life, right…

Relationship dynamics become dysfunctional when someone twists the people around them to fit their own narrative. Whether it’s family, friendships or romantic relationships we all have our unique dynamics going on. Having a dynamic and bringing different things to the table is healthy, a recipe for doing well. …